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listening. Reviewed by Rafael Ramón Fernández Durán Carcelén

listening

By Rafael Carcelén
(Originally published in the weekly Valley Elda )

We can not listen if you do not pay attention to what we hear, if no will to understand what comes to your ear. How many times in many situations, we have been heard?. We face many other interest, but what we really do is think about what we are going to answer our party when you finish your turn to speak. Experts say most of the problems in interpersonal relationships would be generated by poor communication between us. Or simply because we listen with due attention to each other.

Teenagers, for example. That paternalistic attitude toward them, disrupting their views with our experienced perspective or minimizing their distress diminish what happens to them, are a symptom more evident that we are not listening. By contrast, the simple fact that we let them dwell, receiving the serve, you can generate a stream of confidence that will foster a sincere atmosphere while the peace and safety of those who feel more valued than secure in their activities daily.

can not speak who does not listen, went on to say Plutarch. Without active listening can not create. has pointed JA Valente "is written by inaction, by listening, by extreme care in every way to what words are going to say anything." Without the extreme listen, without the wit to perceive where to turn when all seems lost, not scientists would advance: Newton, Marie Curie or Einstein were paradigmatic in this. In the political arena, for example, would any possible consensus, satisfactory to the parties without a mutual and careful listening?. Any genuine pact is the synthesis of the transfer of one or the other, of mutual recognition and all the logical consequence after having listened.

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is estimated at more than double its current level of hearing acuity Neolithic hunter. Do not think there is human activity which is not a good listener. But beware: we really are listening to the clerk that surprised face, as if The first time you heard a request like ours just selling us the same as the previous customer?, do you really listen to us when the therapist expert on payment and after dissecting our discourse, ends by telling us what we wanted to hear?. Authentic listening is always active, while responsive and no preconditions. And it starts by listening to ourselves, our body first. Al parrot.

Rafael Carcelén is a school teacher in the CEIP Padre Manjón of Elda. Poet, DVD passionate and perpetual observer, think about the reality around us or in his column between cabbage and kale in the weekly Valley or elsewhere Elda independent and / or alternatives.